L.O.V.E (What guys want from girls??)
There's something about guys that I can't totally understand.Sometimes it seems ironic how two people can fall in love with each other.The main question still remain,what is it that guys want from a girl?I mean,is it just love,is it attention,is it presents,or something much more than that?In this world nowadays,being in a relationship doesn't really means that just a reason for u to called someone as your girlfriend or boyfriend,but I guess it also became the reason for some couples to take it far beyond what a real relationship should be.We're just silly teenagers trying to seek for some love,someone to care a little bit much about us..But the consiquences??Many of teenagers nowadays take a relationship as something that somehow made them to feel like they're legally can "owned" their lovers..I mean,what the heck~?Are love doesn't have any other way to be shown?
SENSUAL OR SEDUCTION??
How to differentiate between those two??Are men really love a women for who they are,or they just want to take advantage on them?"If you love me,then u have to do it with me~",that it the most common phrase I heard guys are using to persuade their girlfriend to do something which I think is unnecessary for anyone who's not married yet~Maybe many people would say that I'm too closed-minded,this and that..But,think la..If anything happen afterwards,who will suffer the most if not the women?Men can simply left or just not trying to be responsible of what they did..I know,there's still an innocent guys out there who wouldn't do such things.But how many of them??While the girls are "desperately" looking for a good guy,they will somehow get stuck with the bad one first.How pathetic~
Innocent love~where are you???
Is innocent love still can be found?In a "dangerous" world out there,I don't think so~ But,there's nothing wrong of hoping to get one.Everybody deserve to be loved and to be respected of the love they've given.
A true relationship to me,is when you know that you love someone so much,not because of their beauty alone,but for their true self.It's like you're meeting another part of you which doesn't resembles yourself,instead,it completes you,compliment your weaknessess~
DON'T GET BORED OF ♥
No matter what comes in your way,either guys or girls,don't easily get bored by your relationship.Guys especially~don't become a useless who just want to have fun with girls but doesn't really appreciate their presence at other times,the time when she needed you the most.Girls are sensitive~so what?Accept the fact and respect whoever you being in a relationship with~Don't act like what they said ~ "habis madu sepah dibuang"~(for those who don't know what it means,find it urself!)
SHARING IS CARING~
Whatever things,a relationship just couldn't work out just by being "intimate". Maybe,it would strengthen the bond,but there's many other things that couldn't really rely on it alone~Think..Love need something pure that comes from the heart,and not solely from your sensuality and lust over something~Sharing things and thoughts would make the relationship much more valuable and meaningful~trust me...That is more important than anything..When you try to give and take,things would be much easier to get through together.
*ONLY ONE*
I also believe in "缘份"(yuánfèn),or destiny~But to me..I will try my best to hold on to one relationship,as long as it takes,'till God decided to give me another new chapter of my life with someone new.Because indeed love has a strong effect on the heart of humanbeing.No jokes.As I said,don't put your love at a place where devil and lust speaks louder than your true needs of pure and innocent love.
LET YOUR LOVE SHINE~
Even if people tell you anything about love,you surely wouldn't be 100% believe and agree about what they said.I know,there's no reason for me to questioned somebody else's love live,because indeed,living in this world,with a rapid change of almost everything surrounding you (that include our own self),there's nothing much we can do about being pushed into the latest trend and so on~People hug,people kiss,people make love,even in public~whoever even wanna care~that's the life nowadays..This things I wrote,just to remind myself what love really should mean to me,and how I hope that of any men that I know,they can just try to respect more on women and try to look into their eyes so that you can see,that love is not in need of sexual things,but it's in need of trust,care,respect and understanding~
*JUST A REMINDER~BE HAPPY EVERYONE*
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